About Me: Over 40, Jew by choice, gay trans man [he/him], neurodivergent, multiply-disabled, recovering addict, INFJ, Sagittarius. I live a quiet, hobbity life with my BFF and our clowder of cats. I have Seen Some Shit. I currently live in the US. My favorite songs include "Grace" by Jeff Buckley, "Im Nin'Alu" by Ofra Haza, "Inner City Life" by Goldie, "Crushed", "In the Gold Dust Rush" and "Eyes Are Mosaics" by Cocteau Twins; some of my favorite musical artists/bands are Deftones, Cocteau Twins, Tori Amos, Machinedrum, Lone, Our Lady Peace, Jamiroquai and N*E*R*D, my favorite color is ultramarine blue, my favorite movies are The Big Lebowski and O Brother, Where Art Thou?, my favorite authors are Stephen King and Ursula K. Le Guin, I am fascinated by ancient history and space, I enjoy sporking bad B movies, I have varying degrees of proficiency in a few languages, I love Bob Ross and the Muppets, and I like cooking and spending time in nature.

I am on Archive Of Our Own as verhalen [2016-2023] and FlameAndSong [2024 -]. I avoid social media like the plague - I have enough stress. That means you will NOT find me on Twitter, Tumblr, Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, Mastodon, Pillowfort, Bluesky, Threads, Cohost, etc. I do not use Discord or other chat apps. Here's my Linktree for the only places where you can find me.

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